Friday, January 3, 2020

What About the Senior Citizens?

Have you ever wondered why there aren't "Senior Groups" in our churches?   We have Youth Groups, Men's Groups, Ladies Groups, Kids After School Clubs, Singles Groups, Young Families Groups, High School Groups, Post High School Groups, Bible Camps, Day Camps, sports teams..the list goes on....

To be sure, all of these groups are important.  They are good.  They are necessary.  They are there to support, teach and guide people in their Christian walk through God's Word and fellowship with one another.  

But what about the seniors?  Those who are, let's say, between 65 and 75 (or older!).  Are we assuming that because of their age they no longer need Christian fellowship (and fun) with their peers? Do we assume they don't need spiritual guidance?   We recognize that our youth are transitioning into adulthood and may need a lot of guidance as they grow up.     Seniors are also transitioning, and for many, it is not an easy thing:

  • They are getting to an age where their own mortality suddenly smacks them in the face, and  have realized how quickly time has gone by.
  • They have experienced the "empty nest"  - their  home life has suddenly gotten quiet.
  • They may have lost a spouse - and loneliness is a real issue.
  • They may feel less useful at home and at church -  partly because they are unable to do things and partly because they are not asked anymore.   They may not feel important.
  • They have retired from jobs that they have held for years.
  • They  are bored and falling into a routine of television or computers, or just sitting in their easy chair.  
  • They, like any other age, may question their faith
  • They may have  spiritual questions but are reluctant to ask
  • They may not have the opportunity or the means to go out for a fun day with others (they might no longer be driving
  • They have many fears  of the future (nursing homes, shut-in possibility, etc.)
Might it not be a good idea to organize a Senior's Group?  Perhaps a Bible study that results in some real discussion and a little fun besides.  Sure, the seniors aren't going to play baseball, but there are day trips or other activities that could be pursued.    

Often, the Seniors have been supportive, faithful,  Some are the  "prayer warriors" of the church.   Makes sense to develop something they would truly enjoy and benefit from.